friendships

If you don't know, a friendship is much like a marriage. You have to be loyal, involved, and committed if you want it to function any further than some months. I didn't have many true friendships mostly because I know when people are trying to use me. I don't trust a lot of people, mostly because I know how humanity is really like. The most surprising fact is that the majority of teens who are not like the others are going through rough treatment, they are bullied, laughed at, isolated from social groups. That's why I like to have not so many close friends, you never know when one of them will stab you in the back.

On the bright side, true friendships last a lifetime. They make you radiate joy even in your darkest times. You can say a friendship is like a symphony. It's played in harmony by a group of people who respect the rules and respect each other. The anatomy of a friendship is very much complicated, mostly because every person is different. First, we have the old friendships, you know these, they know each other since they were children and even though they are not as close as before they still know everything about each other and hang out once in a while. Then we have the best friends or the following acronyms: BFFs, besties, goals, sis...They will always have their secret inside jokes or at least their own body language which they use in every conversation to secretly gossip the others. Of course, we have the only friends, one of them friend-zoned the other, those are the worst ones. Moving on to the "Yeah I know him/her/them from school" kinda friendship and last but not least, the popular's group, the only one which gossips each other after they go home, but when they are together they act like they are unbreakable.

I know I sound mean, but this is the naked truth. People nowadays tend to harm and damage rather than to grow and construct. It's a shame that humanity is getting meaner and meaner as the generations pass. It's not worth staying in a toxic friendship where you know you don't belong anymore, it will do nothing but harm you. Find the people that make you feel accepted, loved, and respected and stick with them until the end of the world, or don't I can't tell you what to do.